| new man in my life.. |
[Oct. 23rd, 2009|01:39 pm] |
well there has been a lot of things going on in the last couple months. I went on vacation with mom at the end of July and beginning of AUg. First we went to Maine and rented a little cabin on Old Orchard beach. We got to visit with the family and hang out a bit..it was nice. I met a couple guys. The first one was a younger KEnyan guy from Boston who came up for the week with his friends. We hung out one night, then the next night I went out and met a different guy who I ended up hanging out on the beach with till the morning light, while we talked for hours...then closed the night with some "Sex on the beach." His name was Liban, and he was originally from the Sudan. There are a lot of Sudanese and Somali that have formed communities in maine. After all that mom and I flew to Tenn and stayed with broski and family. That was fun. We went to the country music hall of fame, and also the Heritage, Andrew Jackson (7th presidents home). It was a good vacation. Mom, Ben and I all flew home together, and just two weeks ago BEn went back to Tenn for good. He and Dad drove the last load there.
In Sept P-dogg and I went to SD to visit Laur for a few days. SHe and I got a major sunburn our first day out. We had fun.
So sometime in Sept I met someone form the internet..we met at a little local grill and watched part of the game and talked. I thought he was pretty cute. WE didn't talk for about a week or so after I went to SD, then we met up again and went to a bar downtown and had some drinks. We got a chance to get to know each other a little better. Still we got off to a slow start... then we hung out again, and ended up spending the night together..(no sex)...and we were kinda hooked after that. We met up almost every night and he was into going out and eating, and he made me a really nice dinner at the house one night. It was like scallops and shrimp in a creamy white sauce with fetticini. It was so nice. He cleaned the kitchen also. I was hesitant to mess with him at first. He is 41, and he seriously looks like he is early 30s. He has too sons, one in college!! OMG crazy. He was in the marines, and was also a Police officer for a number of years. He was recently divorced. In the last month he has captured my heart. The house he was living in just sold, and the last two weeks he has been staying here. At first he wouldn't give me any sex, and when we got to talking about it he said he was nervous and didn't want me to "not like it." After awhile I started to be worried that he had a really small dick, and or couldn't get it up. Boy was I wrong. We did it for the first time last sunday, after going out for a bit saturday night. It was nice, and has gotten better and better each day since then. I am shocked. Two nights ago we had unprotected sex, and it felt so amazing..... we both freaked out after and made a pack to never do that again. We cuddle all night long, and the sex is soo good. I can't even explain. I forgot what it was like to get so wet and ready for someone. I mean Sam and I had been doing it pretty consistently before I met Ricky, but it wasn't like this. It was more routine. So yeah I have been cupcaking and being all happy and cuddled up. Last night we went and ate at the Nutty Irishman, and the night before we went out to OCC and had dinner at the Union Hotel. It was a nice candle lit dinner. He is a Libra.
Anyways I will get back this matter, all I know is he is all the sudden a part of my everyday life, and I like it.
oH AND HE IS fine as heck too....my gawd. He is black with lighter greenish hazel eyes. Normally I am not so into that look, but he is really handsome and has a beautiful smile. He is muscular and ab0ut 6'1 220. |
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| just stopping by |
[Aug. 4th, 2009|08:27 pm] |
i feel like i haven't slept well since i left home. Last two nights I had semi nightmares. The pot always keeps me from remembering most of my dreams, but since I haven't been smoking...here they come. the night before last I was dreaming that P-dog left me to watch her place while she went away and her little brother Julian who is 16 threw a big party. I got all mad and didn't want to be responsible for all these youngsters drinking so I was trying to get them all to leave. This one little blonde girl kept dogging me out, so I went to chase her and two seperate times she threw a hockey puck at me!! I dodged them both but the whole dream was stressful. I kept threatening them that julians mom was going to come out and raise hell...lol
Last nights dream was about Soli. I went to pick him up or drop him off at his place (which was NOT his place), and when I went in it was TRASHED. I knew something was wrong right away....he is not a slob. As I looked around I realized it looked like the house of a druggie. I went to use the bathroom which was a bunch of stalls and a dirty sink. When I opened the stall there were feces all over..I was mortified and ran out. I was also watching people come in and out..Somehow we got back to my place (that wasn't my place) and i sat him down and I was forcing him to look at me. I was almost in tears. I was asking him "are u on drugs" when I saw his face it wasn't actually him (but in my mind it was), and he said yes. I was soo worried in the dream. he is so straight besides the alcohol. Then all the sudden his mom appeared(she passed away a years ago in Kenya), and she was like "Is this the girl that told you you can't see any other females (or something like that)" and he was kinda like nodding or whatever....and I was like trying to make her see that we have a problem here...her son is on drugs and we have to do something!! that's about all I can remember.
Kevin and I have been going on back and forth. It's not been that good. I want to be his friend, but being in love with him really distracts me from some of the things good friends do, and don't do.
Today we went to Smyrna to see if we could get a tour of the nissan plant, because my mom wants to see where the electric cars are going to be built. We didn't have a scheduled tour(because they were booked), so we couldn't even get passed the gate to the parking lot.
We were out in the pool earlier and all the sudden the sky got dark and it got super windy. We went inside after awhile it mellowed a bit. Tonight there was a big thunderstorm with lots of thunder and lightening. Scary!!!!!
Anyways that's about all I have to say.
my niece and nephew are darling.xoxo |
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| Made it to Tennessee |
[Aug. 1st, 2009|07:25 pm] |
well we left Maine this morning, and instead of driving like we originally planned, we booked tickets yesterday and flew to Tenn today. It was so nice to get off the plan and walk outside and see my little nephew. When I got in the car I saw my niece...she is sooo beautiful. My brother got us lost on the way back to the house, and it was about to drive me crazy sitting in the back between a 4yr old and a 1 year old. We finally made it here. When we all went outside to look at the pool I ran in the house and put on my suit and jumped in...then my nephew stripped and put on his life vest and jumped in with me. It was dark out, but the sky was mixed with some dark clouds. The pool has a light in it, so it looked so inviting. Soon after my brother stripped down to his underwear and jumped in. It was nice to be with my family.
So on thurs night in OOB I met a guy after I was leaving one of the clubs, "the Galaxy." He and I ended up laying on the beach for hours and talking about life. It was nice. He is african (i think from the sudan), not quite sure. In the end we ended up hooking up. Nothing too spectacular, but it was fun. I'm lonely deep down and things with Kevin have been especially hard. He has a little crush on this girl who lives in SAc that he met when he went to the bachelor party like 3 weeks ago. That of course makes me crazy. We talked the other night after I wrote that last post....it was hard, but he wanted me to know that he wasn't going anywhere and our love would always be strong (as friends and what we have established over the years)..and that I was someone he felt so close to. He also said that he would most likely be deployed in Sept back to Afghanistan for like 8 months. That was hard to hear.
UGH. i also wrote Soli a long email the other night (which I already mentioned) and I got a message he left the other day about how he did read it and yes, he understands where I am coming from and that we can go over the many things I mentioned when we see each other again. I'm in a weird situation with my men. That's all I can really say. Soli and I have been friends and nothing more for such a long time, it's kinda hard for me to imagine us as a couple. And we aren't even bringing KEvin into the conversation, because he is the main reason I haven't been able to REALLy consider marrying Soli.
Anyways when I get back to Cali I will be able to go house shopping and that is going to be really exciting! |
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[Jun. 5th, 2009|06:04 pm] |
I saw Kevin for the first time in a long time on May 28th. He and Jay drove down here because I was letting him use the Volvo because the Saturn he was driving caught on fire or something. So when he asked if he could use it I said yes. HE and Jay stayed for awhile and we played bowling on the wii. I beat them both the first round...he was talking hella shit too. He sat down the whole time. The second game he got up and whooped both our ass. lol. he looked good and we def. had a lot of chemistry with each other. I was butt hurt when he wanted to "follow Jay back home" since i had hoped we could have some time alone with one another. I had no intention of having sex or anything, just wanted to spend some time with him. He ended up leaving, and later texted me about how "I looked good" and that was one reason he had to leave when he did. He is having a hard time financially right now, but mainly because he's on a budget..but overall he is worth some money..lol with his house and his Airforce savings and all that..anyways we saw one another. He was very appreciative. WE have been chatting a lot lately...again..and being all close and stuff. It's so hard. I really love him and want him in my future. I feel like a lot of things are coming to a stand point right now. Deep down i know that he wants more than friends from us, and keeps me very close and doesn't want to lose me...but at the same time he doesn't allow us to grow ....ok just hearing myself say that deserves a slap in the face....I MOVED in with another man right as we were doing good. I am the one who fucked things up, but at the same time building our relationship further has been frustrating and challenging. Anyways...we had a nice breakfast. Our time together was cherished. I wanted him to give me a peck on the lips when we parted, but he said that wasn't part of being friends. I told him about the recent things going on with SOli...which I am not sure if I have even mentioned here..but Soli and I have been hanging and on the way home from the ocean like 2 weeks ago he brought up getting married again. We have been talking about it. He needs my help. I want to buy a house soon..and he would help me fix it up because that is what he does...and he is used to building custom homes..and doing high quality work. If it did happen, I would want to buy the house before we married, so there wouldn't be an issue if we got divorced down the road..it would be my house. I know he would never try to claim it, but it's better to just keep it simple in that way. I'm shocked I'm considering this, but I'm a t a different point in my life, and he is very important to me and I want to help him if I can, as well as hopefully putting myself in a more beneficial situation. The two main things that are stopping me are my love for Kevin and my desire to have him in my future, and my parents. I am scared of them and their opinion on the matter...lol When I told him about it.(KEvin) he was all like "go for it" and that made me kinda sad..because it made me feel like wow...maybe he really "just wants to be friends" which could really be the case. As soon as we parted today i was crying. As I passed his car (we ended up at the light together), I tried to wave at him while I was covering my eyes, but he know I was crying and texted me asking me why. At first I was like "who said I was crying" and he was like "i saw u" So I gave him a brief explanation. Later we texted about how good it was to see one another, and I apologized for getting weepy, and he was like "it's all good, I had fun."
So anyways that's whats been going on. I have been working HELLA lately. My back has been fucked up for about a month, and I am finally realizing that I need to see a DR. and see wtf is up.
Ina and the kids have been here for the third week now...(my brother was here), and Wolfie turns four on Sunday, so we are having a party at the house.
::::anthony martin just signed onto yahoo::::
Anyways...I got man troubles.....and so much more to update...
i just can't do it all right now!!!
oh I got two A's and a B in school this semester. In two of my classes I had one of the highest grades in the class and the other class, I think he must have graded on a curve because I didn't think I was going to get a B. It was hard for me because we never followed the syllabus and I never knew what the heck was going on! anyways.........
we'll talk later |
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| I'm Back... |
[May. 19th, 2009|09:19 am] |
I kind of had to force myself to get in here and do and entry. I have to keep updated though, I did terribly this last year with my updates.
SO I had my interview for the county position last tues after school. It was interesting. I realized it was my first REAL interview. I was nervous. The guy before me was all dressed up in an expensive suit and looking all sharp. I was definitely looking presentable but no where near to his level. haha. So there was one man (black) and one woman, they each had a piece of paper with some questions, with some that were circled. So they each start off and he asks me something along the lines of what did I think I would be doing here as a job if I was hired? Hmmm that is a tough one! I mean I knew a few lines, but i hadn't gone back over and read the job description before i came. SO I stumbled on that one a bit. Then I was in mid sentence and couldn't spit out a word, and though I tried to re-pronounce it like 3 times I continued on unsuccessfully. WOW. I was def. qualified though, if not over qualified, and before I left I mentioned someone I used to work with that now works there, and they were all interested. I was the last person to interview that day, so he asked me if I had time to do my fingerprinting. I said yes. So that couldn't have been too terrible of a sign. The person I mentioned to them sent me and e-mail the next day saying that the guy had got a hold of her to ask about me. SO overall I think my chances to further the process of getting in are good.
SOli and I have been hanging out again the last couple weeks. Since he got his lost his license. He has been riding his bike over and hanging out, and I have helped him out with rides here and there. He has been at the JC taking care of everything to go back to school. He is going to take English over the summer. We ran into each other at the library down the street the other day randomly, that was kinda funny. Late last week we got into the Wii and were playing the bowling game. The very first game he bowled a 212! Dang...that's hard to compete with, and why the heck was my bowler bowling left handed! Anyways we had fun...I broke the light bulb above my head when i was doing my victory dance for my strike. Yesterday he came over in the morning and we were hanging out and we decided to go out to the coast. We went through Guerneville and we stopped at Safeway and got a few things, then I went over to get us something at the taco truck and as I was walking over there I ran into
--------Javier, this guy I had the hots for waaaaay back in the day. When I first saw him I was dumbstruck....we kinda just looked at one another. He didn't speak hardly any English. Eventually we decided to hangout, and we did that for a couple weeks. I learned more Spanish than ever before, but eventually he wanted me to be his girlfriend, and I told him that it was an issue that we couldn't have a real lengthy conversation yet, so we weren't ready to go there. I think we kissed once and he like stuck his tongue down my throat and I was like aawwwwww hell naw. lol Anyways I ran into him, and its been about ten years since we had our thing, and many years since I have seen him. He speaks good English now. He told me he got married in March. He was in his truck, and when we went to part he was like "let me get out and give you a hug." It was really sweet and good to see him.
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So we got our food and drove out to the coast. First I drove him up near the restaurant and showed him the mouth, where the river meets the ocean. Then we drove back around to goat rock and walked down towards the mouth. We saw the seals, and saw a few babies. It was really cute. It was overcast, but not too cold to hang out for about an hour. I came home and was a little sunburned on my shoulders. On the way back up the hill from goat rock, we stopped on the side and walked up to this peak spot that overlooks the coast line. It was nice. We were getting along good. On the way back, he mentioned we should get married again. I was almost as surprised as I was the first time he asked me. I was like WHhhhattt....then we went on to talk about other stuff and although i said no, it was still our lingering conversation. HE is in a major bind right now. We were still talking about it when we got back here, and we were talking about what I wanted, after he offered to fix up a house (because I have been looking into buying one), and he is skilled to do that type of work. I was like "you know what I really want" and he was like "Sex" "money" ...yeah yeah but that's not what I'm talking about...he kept asking me to tell him and I was like no, you have to guess. And finally he was like "oh children" and I was like like "yes!" So then it kinda came back to where I brought up that I have wanted that for awhile and have had that talk with him before and told him what I remembered him saying which was "yes I want kids, but i'm not ready right now" and he agreed that he was in the same mind set now. I mentioned that could be a problem for us, and the individual goals that we have. It was kinda intense. I am a bit overwhelmed because I was just getting to enjoy the fact that we had come back together as closer friends and would indeed stay good friends. NOw I am like dang he is back on the marriage thing.
Jigga came by last night. She was having a missing JOhnny moment because Walt has been treating her not like girlfriend material, but more like FWB type of thing. WE all went to Safari west at the beginning of the month, she got us a free tour from this man she met when she was going to AA. So Pal, Jig and I went. It was loads of fun and I got some good pics.
My babies are back in town. Wolfie Elsa Ina and my brother got back from TN on Saturday, and they left to go camping this morning with the Ventling's at King river. They are soo cute. On sunday they were at my moms and Gavin came over to play with him. It was hot, so they were out in the little pool almost all day. It was good fun.
Laur got a new job on SD doing message therapy. She likes it, but I think it's going to be hard on her body.
ANyways that is an update. I have been missing KEvin and things between us have been strained. I haven't even seen him since last October. It sux. He and SOli were in my dream the other night. Kevin came to the door and SOli was in the bathroom. I wasn't expecting KEvin, he just showed up after me not seeing him for so long. I opened the door and just pulled the two of us farther outside so we weren't in the doorway anymore, then I just kissed him. That's about all I remember. |
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[May. 6th, 2009|02:06 pm] |
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I am back. It's been a good while since I have been by to detail the aspects of my life. I'll start with
Tennessee- I went to TN from April 2-7th. I had a good time. I helped Ina get the kids there on the planes (two stops), and tend to them. It was really scary on the way from LAX to TN, I'm pretty sure we got hit by lightening! It was so scary. It was stormy and there was a bright flash on the wing and the whole color of the sky changed for a couple seconds and then we continued on. Everyone clapped when we landed....it's was a little too exciting for my taste. Omi picked us up at the airport and brought us back to the house. The house is super cute, and I had my own stairs to a room above the garage, which is where I stayed. The property was kinda bland and boring, but overall I thought it was nice. The house is big, and the garage is also big. I had a good time hanging out with my nephew, he and I had some good quality time together. We played some games on my laptop at night before bed, and I showed him some footage of tractors on youtube. He thought it was so cool. I didn't do any drinking or smoking while I was there, so it was a good little break from the norm. They had the major Tornado go through there like days after I left.
School has been going pretty good. I am taking 9 units this semester at the JC. After this semester I will be able to get a certificate "Children in the Justice System." I have two child development classes and one Administrative justice class that is aimed for individuals looking to join the law enforcement/corrections field. It would be nice to get three A's, but I think I will get a "B" in the AJ class. The other two, I am pretty sure I will get and "A" and am quite sure I have one of the highest grades in the class in one of them.
Work is going pretty good. I have been working a little less, all up until this last week. WE got a new guy Justin, who is pretty much our second now, especially since apparently Sonya is gone and recently went out on modified. I have been doing "the rack" the last 4 or 5 days and tomorrow too.
Jigga, P-Dog and I went to Safari West the other day. JIg hooked up a free safari tour, that is normally like 75$ per person. She met the guy that does the tours (there are many of them) when she was going to some AA meetings. Her mother is flying in tomorrow. SHe hasn't seen her in like 10 years.
My love life is depressing.
I took the test for a county position last november, but they were in a hiring freeze, and although I passed, they said the test was only good for 3 months, so I figured I would have to re-apply and take the test again, but they sent me an email, and when I called I ended up getting an interview for next week. So we'll see what happens with that.
Anyways I have to go to school soon, so I was just stopping by... |
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[Mar. 4th, 2009|10:25 pm] |
and i forgot to mention that Ina and my brother bought a house in tennessee that just closed escrow, so they are moving soon :(
IM going to go there next month and help my Ina take the kids on the plane..and travel...because my brother won't be leaving yet. |
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[Mar. 4th, 2009|10:02 pm] |
I got an e-mail from Orlin a couple days ago...and it just said he had some sad news and that I need to get in touch with him. He is the younger brother to a guy I dated back in 1999-2001ish...I had fallen sooo hard for this guy. He was the one I moved to dallas with. He was also a "love at first sight" type of thing. I knew the moment i saw and interacted with him the first time, that I wanted to be with him. Anyways when I read the e-mail I already knew what the news would be. Elmer had died. I called him, even though I knew it was super late in dallas, I knew I couldn't go to bed without knowing. He told me Elmer was killed in and accident the week before(feb 23) and they were having his funeral the next day. He was riding a bike, and got hit by a car. Even though i knew he was going to tell me he died, hearing it come out of his mouth was devastating.. I choked back some tears, then just really cried when I got off the phone. I started reminiscing over all the time we spend together and the intense memories I had relating to him.
SO I was having a hard time dealing with that, then the very next morning, Kevin tells me he is leaving the next day to "go back to war." At that moment I felt like I was losing and had lost important pieces of myself through the men I loved..and then was soo panicky at the idea of losing him, and remembering two summers ago when he was in Afghanistan, and how much I worried. Not to mention I was angry at him. Why did he wait to tell me? wHY didn't he make it a priority to come say goodbye before he left? Why Why Why.....
Even right now I'm lonely without him because we'd probably be having a convo through e-mail at this moment if he was home. It's been a long time since i have even seen him. We saw a movie when I was living with Soli. We haven't hooked up in even longer...but still we remained close, and neither of us could let go of the other. There is still a part of me that believes we belong together, and it has taken years to realize...
thats my news....I've been up to some other stuff...but it all sort of feels irrelevant at this moment. |
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[Feb. 5th, 2009|03:43 pm] |
So this guy has been staying with me for the last 5 days, and it's been sooo hard for me!! haha. I don't even know how it came about. I met him about two weeks ago while I was out with Brandon. Then we hung out a bit, and had sex. Um yeah he has a huge dick. super big and think. Anyways, he and his mom moved out of their place on the 31st and she was headed to San Leandro to stay with a friend till she got in her place. He asked if he could stay with me and i was very hesitant. So he stayed for some days, and he was good, I'm just not used to ppl up in my space...so yesterday when he asked if he could stay longer I said NOO. I wanted my place back.
SO he left today. I was happy. He's a total cutie. WE are just in two different spots in life. Hopefully I'll get to explain later.
My brother and family just got back from Tennessee, and they made an offer on a house. It's pretty fat. There is a big in ground swimming school, 3bdrm, 2bath, office, den, on about 12 acres. It sucks so bad, but i'm trying to be positive about it though.
Since i got the camera I've been trying to take a bunch of pics. I walked down the street the other day (to where I almost got beat up)..lol and I took a bunch of pics of some random kids (with their parent's there), and then came home and made a CD, but I haven't it to them yet. I did send one of the mother's an e-mail with some pics. As I was out there taking the shots I came up with an idea that I'm thinking about persuing. I'm going to call it "Kids on my Block." It's going to be a program aimed at getting low-income families good pictures of the kids. I started out by making an ad on Craigslist, which I placed in the "free" section. I wrote and ad that stated I was willing to provide photography services to people who were interested an amateur session. Aimed at families, and for children especially. I got quite a few replies and set up a few appts. I was supposed to do 3 today. Once cancelled because her daughter started lacrosse practice early. The other woman and I talked and decided to reschedule because of the rain. I did get to do one this morning though. I got an e-mail from a woman who set up a childcare center/school recently and was out of money, but wanted to get pics of her kids for the website and brochure. So I went there this afternoon at about 11am, and took some pics. It was fun. I took 165 pictures. It was especially fun doing the babies. I got some really good close ups. I didn't get the chance to spend much time with the kids who were a little older (3-4), because they had lunch, then it was nap time. Overall it worked out really well, and Bobbi, the owner, was very pleased with the results. I made them a picture CD instantly with my laptop and left. It was good.
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[Jan. 29th, 2009|03:36 pm] |
So yes, kind of a lot has happened since then.... P-DOg and I rented a PT cruiser and drove to see LAur for her 30th b-day in San Diego... WE left on the 1st of the year early in the morning, so I didn't go out the night before for new years eve or anything. WE drove there on the I-5 and then cut accross on the Santa MOnica 405 and had lunch at this Cuban restaurant in Venice. We stopped at Hunington beach and were all up in the OC. P and I had a good time on the way down. Laur had texted early that morning that she was throwing up with a temperature. So we were playing it by ear whether or not we were going to stay the first night with them, because we had already made reservations for the following two nights. So on the way down after we talked to Laur P was worried about getting sick from LAur and wanted to have her mom book us a place from home. I didn't really want her mom to get involved, since we were on the road and didn't know what the plan would be like when we got closer. SO we had a quick spat over that and I told her to chill out that we were on vacation, and no matter what it would be fine......after a sec she agreed and things were fine. We had a good time. We went to the Cuban place because she had been there a long time ago with her mom. THEY are cuban. Food wasn't the best, but it was more the experience..they use Yucca root a lot! I sell it at work, but never really knew what it was used for. We got there kinda late and ended up spending the night at LAurs...she was feeling better and Sean cooked us a little dinner and it was really nice. I was happy also that P-dogg got a chance to meet him in his setting and get to know him a bit. We played bowling and mario bros on the Wii.....that sean got laur for her b-day, and it was lots of fun. Later that night and the next morning Sean was throwing up!lol We were a bit nervous we would catch it too.
We had a good time together and went to Point Loma, and also the museum in Balboa park. P-dog and I spend the night on fri night at our motel downtown.....then the three of us spent the night on Sat night. The people staying there were soo loud...P was getting pissed...didn't seem to bother me much..though they were really loud and were very annoying. I had fun hanging with my girls and it was really good to see Laur. She's so great. I loved spending time with P-dog also.....we don't spend nearly enough time together anymore.
********* I'm watching wife swap******************** that and trading spouses are sooo interesting to me.
So hmmm about a week and a half ago I bought a new camera at Costco, knowing I could return it if need be. So on a Sat, I waited in the longest line with my one item (no express), and I get up there thinking i might charge it to my credit card, bit Oh no...they only take American Express!!! So I had to debit it out of my account, which barely had enough in the checking to do sooo.... I had agreed to do photo shoot with Walt, because he had all these plans brewing and needed to get a portfolio underway. I couldn't do waht he wanted with my little SOny...I needed a REAL camera!! SO I got it anyway and he and I went to the coast on SUN and I took about 500 pics of him. yes 500, that's a lot, but not when you are a photographer. I realize all my friends try to pass me off as a photographer and I am always denying it and saying Im an amatuer (because really I am), but I have the ability to take nice pics... and I was pretty impressed with what we got out of the photo shoot, especially since I didn't know the camera at all...
It was a beautiful day at the beach and we stopped at "River's End" on the way home and had a drink and took some more pics.... when we left he said they had paid for our drinks... (we had crab cakes too....Excellent!!!!), and I was kinda like "yeah they better have!!!" but that's because my nephew is named after his grandfather, the man who made that restaurant what it is...as well as my brother still works there as well as doing the real estate. He wasn't there, because they were on a family trip to Tennessee to check out things for the move. SO I took another 50 or so pics there on the deck..over looking the nouth of the river to the ocean. It was amazingly hot!! |
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[Dec. 22nd, 2008|05:25 pm] |
Yesterday I worked 4am-1pm (well actually 4:20 to 1:05..lol). That's because however late I am in the morning, I take a shorter lunch to make up the time so I still leave right when I should be, so Commander (produce dept manager/PDM) doesn't know that I have taken a short lunch. So after work I came home and did my semi-normal routine...sitting on the couch..watching tv (desperate housewives if I work early enough), having a smoke, eating if I'm hungry, sometimes drinking, and most of the time taking a nap. Yesterday I took my nap on the couch, which is so uncomfortable (not to sit, but to lay and sleep), that it makes me wonder how Soli could lay out there and watch tv and fall asleep all the time. It's mainly because its small, like a 2 seater. So I took my nap for hours, then when I got up I was conversing through text with one of my newest prospects, Richard, who lives in Vallejo at the cAL Maritime Navy ship, where he goes to school and lived on the ship. He is 25, and the oldest of 5. HE was born in trinidad, which is what his mom is, where as his dad is from Compton or something. That's what he said, not sure if he was joking about the compton, but i think he was serious.
SO I drove to vallejo to meet up with him. HE met me at the gas station, then I followed him and got in his car. So we have been texting and originally emailing back and forth for over a week, but this was the first time I had met him. SO first I heard his voice on the way there, I was happy with it, thinking he was too goody-goody possibly, but then I heard the street in his voice. When I saw him, he was very good looking, he has a beautiful face. He is a bit skinny for what I normally go for, and he dressed not really the way I'm into, but I was pleasantly happy all the same. I need to be less picky and judgmental anyways. lol. and trust me I know Im not all that.
So I get in his car and he takes me onto the campus/base, where he has to use his id card to get in the gate. We parked and then walked a bit onto the ship. It was huge. The scene was very nice with the bridge that connects vallejo and richmond in the background with the lights outlining it. It was nice. He gave me a good tour of the ship, it was empty because all the students are away for the holidays. I saw the engine room, and classrooms and eating quarters. We went out on the dock, with is right next to his room. It was really kinda romantic. He is really outgoing and friendly. After the tour, we went back to his little dorm like room with the funny smelling bathroom (which you couldn't smell when you weren't in it thankfully), and we blew up his air mattress bed, that was very much like a real bed. Not the kind that goes flat as your sleeping but the kind that is as high as a reg bed with a box spring, and is very firm. So we kicked back and talked. Eventually we got friendly and touched and he went down on me. It was good, too much frantic tongue though..lol I mean I like tongue, but I also like it when the guy goes slow and actually has his lips mouth on you, like he's making out with that V. SO yeah I came anyways after while...so couldn't have been too bad!! Nah it was good. So then we like get ready to have sex and Im like ummmmm "Condom?!" And he's like well it's up to you, and I'm like whhhhaaat this isn't a option or a negotiation, this is something that is a def. He's telling me how he had surgery and can't have children, how he only has one ball. lol. I feel there rught away, and he's like "you can't really tell" and it was hard to tell, but as it seems there was only one ball. Then he's like and I know I'm clean. I was just straight up like, I honestly don't care, it's not an option. SO he got them out and he's one of those guys that goes soft at the thought of the condom (like Bro flo). So after all that we ended up not having sex because he wasn't hard after that. In the morning we were up early though and he had it on and we had sex for a good while. It was good, no real complaints. Later we went to breakfast at nations, and I drove home. NOt without crossing that bridge and then turning around and having to pay 4$ which took me over 4 minutes to find, yet I was determined to find it when she told me they would send me a bill for 25$ if I couldn't pay!! I was like crap, I didn't even mean to get on the bridge. Then after I got off the 37 and back on the 101 I got a speeding ticket in Novato, and he said he had been watchin me from the 37. He gave me a ticket for 75 in a 65. That was totally weaksauce. So I came home and showered, then was chillin out when Brian, the other newest prospect that I had had sex with twice before. He wanted to see what was up. I told him to come over.
So he came by and he looked GOOD. WE chatted and then started feeling up each other. I was just in my robe when he got there, with the thermostat on 70. haha. He asked that I be naked, but i need some covering. He wanted to go down on me right away. It was good. He likes to lick and finger at the same time. I am not into the fingering....... it feels good at times, but overall i am not into the finger in the pussy. SO then I asked if he wanted to go in the bedroom. He did. Last time we had chatted online he mentioned that I had never been on top. And though i just said we had sex twice before, I meant met up twice before, and had sex at least three times each time I was there. SO I agreed that yes, I had never been on top. He asked if it was something I liked...I said yes I do.lol.
SO that was how we started off, and actually I gave him a little head for the first time, he acted like it was the best thing ever. I will admit I actually liked giving him head, he has a nice dick, not too big so that it makes the giving a chore. But he;s def big enough to fill me up. SO after I put on a condom, I climbed on top. He really makes me feel like he loves that shit. He's like "wow... your so good........blah blah this feels so good..."..he's mumbling too, that's when I know he likes it, when he doesn't even care if I can make out what he's saying. I could tell he was going to come soon, and I didn't mind...I was giving it to him good. But he has no idea how it can really go down when I'm on top. I mean when I am with Kevin, he makes me work up there.lol he's like routing me on, and I end up FUCKIN the shit out of him when we are done...lol but it was more at my own pace and I was liking riding him.
aww and he just sent me a message online.... "I had a great time 2day, your amazing" that's a really sweet thing to say, and I will soak up every single nice word he has to say. then we layed back in bed for about a half hour and talked, then did it again, kinda in a spooning position. After he was like "So we still never got that movie." and when I told him I was off tomorrow he asked me if I wanted to see one tomorrow. I said yeah. SO maybe we will see a movie tomorrow.
anyways jigga just called crying.......having a little breakdown...so I told he to come over....
so i gotta go... |
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[Dec. 14th, 2008|03:22 pm] |
So today is a really lazy sunday. I have too many bad habits...
i've had the weekend off, it's been nice...
So fri night MIchael came and picked me up and we went to Brandon's house for poker. We did it tournament style starting off with two tables.. I made it to the second round winners table, then lost on the river with two pairs to a flush....
Sat morning Soli came and picked me up and I treated him to breakfast at Carlos's Kitchen, since it was his 27th birthday. It was nice. terrible orange juice. I found these two buttons online. They were Obama buttons but by Kenyans. LIke "Kenyans for Obama 08" and the other one was the Kenyan flag with Obama in the middle. So i ordered them for him. He just stopped by again to gather some more things. Im really ok with it all, I mean realistically i kinda had to realize that he wasn't the man for me awhile back. He's a good man, but not the one for me. It's a little lonely without him, but i can't lie, Im ready to get back to bachelorette life.
Tomorrow is Kevin's birthday. My two saggi lovers are three days apart. Things between he and I have been very strange. He was acting like an asshole by text the other night. So I just said goodbye and stopped talking. He said he wasn't a bachelor anymore. The next day he texted to apologize to me, saying he wasn't feeling well the day before. I was kinda like whatever..sooo where's ur lady? apparently he was lying. I should prob steer clear of him, but I want to see him HELLA bad. And DWAYNE, damn that boy has been on my mind too. And his brother!! lol ok Im bad. So bad. I had my physical last week and she called and said I was all clean from the STD tests, so that is always good. new guy Brian wanted to hook up, and I told him it was a bad time because I was on my period (which is true). i don't know what to do about him...I really like the sex, and he gave me great oral (which I came), but then my V felt all weird and off for days after, so I didn't let him do it again. NOw I know everything is back to normal and clean, Im thinking maybe I just reacted badly to his mouth..lol but i want to hook up again but am scared to let him give me oral..lol and its good too! dang plus he really wants to..so i don't know how to tell him....
onto other things....
my niece and nephew are getting big. Wolfie and I walked downtown to the library yesterday, well I actually pulled him in the wagon. My niece is a little over 8 months old and a total cutie. Children are amazing.
I am waiting to hear back from the county for the job I applied to. I took the test on NOv 24 and they say it takes a few weeks to get the results. i think I did alright. I know I must have at least passed with a 70%.
I am happy to see that the price of natural gas has gone down since last year because I have been staying warm here at home!!!
i don't have a whole lot to say right now......... Im watching house right now...it's starting to rain..
So the whole foods that is about to open in coddingtown has been delayed. It was supposed to open in 09, but now it looks like 2010. that kinda sux, but the parking lot that is already finished with the new palm trees looks good.
special thanks to "the beth" for her concern for me and my feelings during the recent transistion with Soli. much appreciated. |
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[Dec. 10th, 2008|09:46 pm] |
WEll Soli just moved out. Just like that. He told me earlier in the week that he had an appt for weds but he basically got the place. HE's like a couple miles away. I don't even know to be happy or sad. SO many feelings. We have gotten along fine lately (as friends), and we hugged real close when he left. He's not Gone gone, since he still has a bunch of stuff here to take. With his couch and huge tv he just bought day after thanksgiving, it looks different. This whole experience really closed a chapter for us. '
I'll just end it there. I have to work at 4am. |
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| PUt down CL and Write an Entry.... |
[Nov. 11th, 2008|08:07 pm] |
SO not much going on...Soli is on the couch sleeping and I am watching "house." Another show I have gotten into this year. So i never mentioned any of the bad things i have done in the last few weeks. I mean I wouldn't say bad...well yes, yes I would. It started off with Bro Flo... the night of the 27th I went to Jaspers and had a good time. HE was walking in as I was leaving. I had already decided i could wait no longer. He said he's call me...he did. I walked out of the house (SOli was already asleep/he had gone to Jaspers too), and he was there outside with his Jeep thing. He drove around the corner to the same complex where I almost had got beaten up in April..lol.. We parked. It was like 2am. We started talking, about all kinds of things. It had been two months since we had hung out last. He asked about my living situation. Then he brought up the last time we were together, mentioned something i had said last time tripped him out a bit...I was like "umm what did I say"..then he's like "you don't remember?" I'm like yeah I remember, but not saying anything worth a conversation two months later. Then he said how I said "I love you" while we were having sex last time. I'm like "I never said that!?!" He was convinced...I KNOW i did not say that. I know exactly who I have told I love you to in my life, and haven't said it to someone i didn't mean it. It would have never crossed my mind to every say a thing like that. I told him I really didn't. That possibly i could have said "I love it" "i love that," but i damn sure didn't say "I love you." So we finished with that topic. He brought up about how he offered to be with me, and I said again how I couldn't take it seriously under his circumstances. which is true, and has been. So anyways we finally started touching a little. We fully french kissed. I wasn't sure how we were going to work it out in the car. He's like 6'4-6'5 probably..and a big guy. I ended up on his lap. facing forward. We tried to use the condom, but he has a issue with staying hard with one, he claims even the thought of it makes him soft. I usually don't buy that crap at all, but I have been with him quite a few times, and its true. So i ended up sliding on top of him and it felt so good and i was excited, and I just bounced up and down on him, and he was like "I'm bout to cum." Then I liefted off of him and he came. I enjoyed it, though it was short, but I can tell he was disappointed for not going longer. He made a comment about how the foreplay was longer than the sex. Anyways, he dropped me off, and that was that. So that was my first dip back into the pool.
The very next day I knew Sam would be calling because we had talked the day before. SO he called and he ended up meeting me at Coddingtown and we drove out to G-ville and I took him to Armstrong Woods, my old stomping grounds. Being from L.A and currently living in vallejo, he hadn't had much exposure to the beauty of the Csalifornia Redwoods. I think he was impressed. We went to the redwood theater, then we hiked up in the hills and found a semi-secluded area. I laid down the blanket and basically got undressed. He went down on me in the woods under all those redwoods, it felt so nice. Then I got on top of him and we kinda embraced as I sat on his lap and grinded on him. Then I turned around and he hit it from the back, as I looked over the redwood theater. then I turned around and he had me up against a tree that had fallen, not time recently. It was in this position that he came. We joked about how we couldn't leave the condom up there, they might locate him from his D.N.A someday for something..lol SO we walked through the forest and to the car, then he dropped me off near the house. I know Im bad. But let's face it I was good for Soli and he did not want me anymore, so I can't go forever.
NOw let me get to Sat the 5th. I met a guy on CL (Dozie)and we decided to meet up near Mill valley and get a hotel. Always a risky manuever...not because i am worried he'll hurt me, more worried that I won't like him enough to want to get naked. He got there first an paid for the place. He drives a new black BMW, and has a good job where he travels frequently. So i get there and he is good looking, but not exaclty my type (MUST stop being so picky). We smoked out and got to know one another. He told me he liked my look, my body. We kissed. I was kinda not into the kissing, like wanted his saliva and tongue to be out of my mouth..lol. When we got to the sex, it was good. He was good sized. He did go down on me and that was good too, but then he positioned himself for 69 and I am just not really into new cock and ass in my face. I noticed he kinda had little balls. He dick was big, but smaller testicles. hmmm He really gave it to me, and I took it. I mean this man had some serious stamina and endurance. We did it a total of three seperate times....two that night and once in the morning. He was a gentleman, and overall it was a good first time hook-up. He callem me earlier this week to see if we could do it again, but the scheduling wasn't right on my end, and well I wasn't ready to get back with him.
Been missing Kevin like crazy. He had me all linked up to the Loopt thing on Metro, which is really exciting stuff for a free service...that creepy GPS tracking. Anyways, we were being naughty through text the other day, and when it was all over he was saying how he shouldn't have done that. I contribute it to someone he is seeing, or thinking about seeing. Anways I hadn't really talked to him since, but left my loopt open for him..so I am going to work at 4am on Monday morning and I check the loopt and he's not at home, so I immediately jump to conclusions that he's sleeping over a some females...which honestly isn't that likely. When i asked him tonight, he said no, and well he has no reason to lie. So on that morning I removed him tight away and hadn't heard from him since. Today he texted me "Happy Veterans Day." I felt so bad, I didn't even realize it was veterans day. he is a two time veteran with the airforce. So originally i had planned to not respond when he did text me, but under the circumstances, I texted him back.
Soli was in Vegas last weekend, and it was nice having the place to myself. I am such a hypocrite, I am so jealous of these females he has in his life, that I would know nothing abou tif I wasn't so nosy and invasive by readin his texts. :::sigh::: last night when he got into bed I was kinda like "I don't know how much longer I can do this" and went on to explain how I really didn't want to be around while he's dating other females, and he's like "i'm not dating." and I was like "well you will be." And he went on to give me the usual lecture about how he wasn't like that. i mentioned how I wasn't even the last girl he kissed...he was like yes you are..then Im like "french kissed," and he's like I don't even really do that. I was like mmmmmmk. and that was about the extent of it. Though today I felt like apologizing a little and telling him I wasn't really that anxious to get rid of him...because im reallynot.
Anywas that's probably enough for now. I know I am a little extreme in the sexual department, but I can hardly help myself, it is a need for me, and makes me feel soo much better to have been intimate. I just hope my kids don't read this someday and think..wow....this and that.
So that night after i wrote the last entry, on election day, when Soli came home I had just gotten into bed. I called out to him in the living room, and I was like we need to hug, and I got out of bed and he lifted me in the air and my legs were wrapped around him and he kissed me on the neck, it was a good moment. I missed the physical touch of him.
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| Obama for Prezzzzzzzzzz |
[Nov. 4th, 2008|07:43 pm] |
Yes, I am so very excited today....nervous....all that.
Obama is leading now and they just announced that he has taken Ohio, so that is excellent.
I'm also concerned about the Prop 8. i am a definite no on 8. So much so that when MIchael called me this morning to tell me he and some No supporters were holding signs near the store, I ended up going there and standing out on the corner for about 4 hours waving a No on 8 sign. It's discrimination. There were so many people that honked and waved. We got lots of thumbs up. There is no doubt in my mind that sonoma county is going to vote no on Prop 8. I just don't know about everyone else. This one woman stopped by and dropped off a bag of food which included: Luna bars, other granola bars, asian pears, juice squeeze, water, pita chips, and some other goodies. She just wanted to thank us for standing out there and showing support for the No on 8. We were near the administration building so people were walking by us all day, esp during lunch time. Towards the end, a man in a suit came by and gave us gift certificates to Peet's coffee to let us know we were appreciated.
All in all it was good...all up until the final moments when I was on the corner with my sign, and I see an older shit brown taurus pull up and I think to myself, hmm that looks like the car TY(guy who broke into my house) would drive. SO I drop my head a bit (they are first in line at the light). Sure enough there he is in the driver seat with a female in the front. i actually hit their car with my sign and I was like "WHAT"S UP" I was suddenly pumped. He looked like shit, she wasn't anything to write home about....and i was like wow.... your a piece of shit...she's looking at him like "WHo the fuck is that?!" and I'm like go ahead and tell her.... lol then the light went green...... it all happened so fast....what a loser. Ruined me for like and hour...seeing him. But then I shook it off and got excited about the election again!
woohoo....history baby. I mean having a better president is one gift in itself....having a black president, we damn that is some shit. Makes me feel good all over. Makes me feel good for all the children out there, not just black children to know that everyone deserves and chance at being who they want to be. Also to all the ignorant people who think that because someone is black they aren't intelligent, this has hopefully enlightened them a bit.
OBAMA IT IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have so much other things to write about as far as life....but that's a whole other entry!!!!
can't mix sex and politics!
Kevin just texted me "watch out white gurlz" because he always said if we end up with a black president, all the sudden it will be ok for black men to date white girls. relating to fathers having to accept black men, because our president was one. So I texted him back "i knw rite, so wen do you want to meet my father" he texted back "whenever" :) |
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[Oct. 3rd, 2008|10:57 pm] |
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Well it's friday night and I'm chillin at home. Brian and Soli came home about an hour ago and have been chillin since. They are watching tv and I am chillin over here on the couch with my laptop. Ahhh love the laptop. It really started raining for the first time today. I love the sound of it. Makes me all romanticized and shiiiiit. All horny. I sent my man a couple texts today letting him know that I WANT some thing from him. He never responds to texts I send him when they have a sexual tone. It's annoying. Im frustrated
but strangeeverything else is going so well....he brought me home a veggie burrito today...nice and thoughtful :) |
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[Oct. 1st, 2008|07:00 pm] |
Last night I went over to Brandon's and we played poker. I had to buy back in twicw (5$), but out of the 7 people there I ended up being second. I made back my money, and came up 14$!!! woohoo. I did drink too much Jager and when I came home Soli was passed out on the couch, where he layed sleeping half the night. I tried to wake him up once, but then later I was feeling really shitty from the alcohol and I didn't want to get out of bed to go get him when it was like midnight. Finally he woke up on his own and came to bed. After he left for work this morning I was hacking up all kind of flem and congestion. Gross. I am all stuffed up.
Anyways I don't have much to report, so I guess I'll be on my way............ |
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[Sep. 29th, 2008|01:11 pm] |
Well last night I went to 7 for "Sunday School" with Michael and Jamie. I had a good time, felt like shit this morning. Another morning where I was kinda like "you need to not drink" all in my head. I tossed and turned half the night. Then I threw up mostly nothing at like 5:15am.
The night before, Sat night, I went to Daniel's (snesse's old boss and good friend) little piece of paradise for "the B's" 30th birthday party. I guess they started pretty early in the day, so they had been swimming and all that. The water looked great, it's not a pool but a swimming area and a mote like set up. Lot's of palm trees. So when I got there later in the evening a lot of people were already pretty intoxicated, especially "the B." After being there for over an hour, I decided to go to the store with Jake and Hamer to get something to drink. Apparently while we were away, "the B" pulled out his dick and was swinging it around. lol So the next morning I get a call from him and he is asking me if i have any incriminating pictures of him. HAha I'm like..."whatever do you mean.......?" So I told him that yeah I hadn't been there for his show. I did take a bunch of pics though. I got a bunch of Hamer making out with this girl that he had been cappin on earlier when we had gone to the store. I might make him a collage out of the pics. I got to see an old grade school friend, Toben, and that was nice to see. He lives in Marin, has a boat and stuff. Pal showed up later, so we got to hang out a bit. I went home around midnight. Soli got home right before two, which is standard, right after the bars close. He wasn't feeling that great the next morning, so he layed around and then went out and got us each a burrito. The night before though, when he got home after drinking and I had been at the birthday party, I was feeling fine (didn't get too drunk), and I really wanted to be with him. I wanted to get some sooooooo bad. He's passed out and i am trying to touch him and maybe wake him up as he's realizing that he's already in the mood. He was passed out though and I had to give up. Plus I want him to make the move. I was almosted convinced for a second that it wouldn't happen and we would end up going our seperate ways warlier than expected, but the last few nights, we have sleeping in a closer proximity, than we had since the night we had that big blow up after being out with his friends, where we proclaimed the we felt like friends, and that we both knew it wouldn't work. It left me feeling emptyish. But maybe for now that was just a hurdle. I keep asking him, "So do you only see me as a friend now?" and he just won't get in a discussion with me about it. He just called me a little bit ago and was asking if I had turned in his paperwork for the property MGMT, for him moving in, and I was like "no, I really wasn't sure if you wanted to." He said he did. He also has already had him mail forwarded here.
Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo yeah. I haven't done much on my vacation, but sit around and sleep in. Ahh lovin that though. Our place is cozy, and I am happy the way that it's set up, except for the second bedroom which mostly a nightmare. So is the garage, but I have been trying to chip away at that. Soli bought four new tires with rims for the Camino, which cost him like a grand. I am curious how much money he has..lol I know he doesn't have a lot, but I am wondering if he has been saving much over the last few years. Anyways, so now we have the old tires in the garage, which are pretty big, plus his compressor things, and all my wood and my table and reservoir. So i am trying to get rid of some things and clean it up a bit.
Time to go.....................go where is the question. |
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[Sep. 26th, 2008|07:14 pm] |
"what senator Obama doesn't seem to understand"
"we have fundemental differences"
"We can't do what Senator Obama wants to do"
"fundemantal"
"fundemental"
"fundemental"
Im watching the presidential debate. It's interesting. I mean there is so much going on in the world today. So many issues in so many countries. I mean here we are in OUR presidential debate for the presidency with OUR country.....to me means we should really be vested and focused on OUR country, and here we are having to spend so much of the debate anour political efforts invested in other countries.
I am also two jager/rebull's deep. |
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[Sep. 26th, 2008|04:38 pm] |
Last night we went to a "Anthony B" concert in Petaluma at the Mystic. It started off where it was supposed to be Jigga and I, but earlier in the night Josh had called to see if he and Snesse could catch a ride. I said yes, though I knew Jigga and Sness hadn't been getting along. So she ended up lagging hella because she was trying to put a deal through and Josh kept calling and harrassing her because he wanted to catch the opening band. Anyways we finally ended up making it there and we had fun. I was all feeling like I wanted to take a crap when I got there, since I had eaten taco bell while waiting for Jigga. So my stomach was turning a little and i wanted to take a crap before I started drinking. So we get there and Jigga and I wait in line for the ladies room which was quite long, then my turn finally come and I go in the stall and there is no freakin toilet seat. I'm like awww hell nah, I am not about to try and take a shit squating. I am not a squater. SO I did a little pee and left. I only had two drinks while I was there. I was pleasantly surprised to see Caleb, who is a brother to a guy I have known a couple years, and he and I had a good time hanging out monday night when i went to Jaspers. So he was there, and in the end we hung a bit, and he invited me over. I drove home and dropped off Jigga, then came home and it was right after one and Soli wasn't home yet (he came home from work and changed real fast saying he was off to the lake), anyways I decided to go back out and hang with the boys. When I got there, his brothers has supposibly went to get some beer (they never came back), so he and I chilled at his house for a couple hours and talked. At one point he tried to kiss me and I was like Ummmmmmm no that isn't about to happen. I know that I am saying all this stuff about my man not being into me and how he and I basically desided the other night that we really won't work out, but doesn't mean I am about to go mess with another man while he and I are still involved. Then he was like "wow you really are a good girl."
SO yeah i got home after 4am and got in bed. Soli never cared one way or the other. I am kinda bummed about he and I. The last week we have really seperated ourselves more.
Then yesterday morning I talked to Kevin and he told me he had sex with a girl named "jen." That made me cry a bit. I have no reason to be jealous, but I am.
Bro Flo texted me two nights ago around 2:25am for a booty call no doubt. i TExted him the next day saying I was "all the sudden in a realtionship with a man that's not into me" He wanted to know who and I just said someone I had been involved with off and on for years. I know they more or less know each other. I saw Soli acknowledge him at Jasper's one time. I asked him about his brother, and if he was in jail, he said no. I told him to tell his brother he's an asshole and I miss him, then I told him to tell himself the same thing, minus the asshole part. I do miss them both, shady as that sounds.
Life is crazy.....but I have more money saved today then I EVER have, though that's not saying much!!!!!! |
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